Tuesday, June 3, 2014

June 2014 Newsletter

Tom and Felicia
Nothing much is new here. We loved getting to see Joey down in Denver at the beginning of the month! He and Desi somehow convinced me to run the Spartan Race with them, which I did pitifully at, but it was still fun! We just returned from Denver again where Tom ran the BolderBoulder with Desi on Memorial Day and we look forward to going back in two weeks to see Abby's baptism! Tom and I are both trying to move to a healthier lifestyle with more active activities and healthier eating. We're definitely looking forward to Summer! Noah still isn't crawling or even scooting BUT, he has gotten quite effective at rolling from place to place. :) We're hoping the others follow soon.


Dan and Cherstin
Good news: Our house is under contract. We are waiting to hear back from the prospective buyers on what repairs they really want as their list was over the contracted $500.  We had the appraisal this week and the appraiser found no major repairs or issue with the agreed-upon sale price.  We pre-sign our closing papers on Tuesday. Prayers would still be appreciated that this sale goes through and the house is one less thing we have to worry about.  I'm hoping this is HF blessing us and trying to have faith that it will work to our best interest.


We have packers coming Monday/Tuesday (2-3 June) and they will load the truck Wednesday (4 June).  Things are really starting to happen and it's rather hectic getting it all done.


Abby had her interview with our bishop tonight and she is all set to be baptized on 7 June at 11:30.  She just had her birthday and was excited to celebrate with friends at an adventure place where they do a ropes course, belaying, kayaking, stand-up paddle boats, etc. She had a great time. She also recently earned her very own (plain) Kindle and is ecstatic that she will be able to take it on our road trip.


Emmett said goodbye to his swim team this last week. It was very bittersweet for him. He has had such good friends and amazing growth in the last year. We are sure he will find a good team in Alaska as well.


Ellie is continuing with her reading lessons when I can fit it in.  She is doing really well. She also had a gymnastics performance where she was given a medal and was very ecstatic to have her very own medal after watching her brother get some for the last year.


Hyrum turned three last week.  We took him to the science museum and a library party.  He still insists it's his birthday, though.  


Enzo is FINALLY walking.  Sometimes I think that helps his demeanor, but sometimes not.  Today, for example, he wanted up, then squirmed to get down, got down only to be Angry because he wasn't up.  He is the kid that is going to be a pain for the three weeks in the car, I'm sure.


Dan has work off basically this week to help with packers and movers which is awesome because I'm not sure I could manage ALL THE THINGS on my own.


There are other things going on, but nothing like the giant move staring us in the face.


Mike and Desi
I don't feel like there is much going on here...


Mike is still busy with work, that's a good thing, but things aren't as stressful since their customer meeting last month. He is excited that our temperatures have warmed up so he can go out and ride his road bike early Saturday mornings, though he's only gone a handful of times. He is also eager to use the pool for early morning swims before work.


Desi had fun running the Bolder Boulder with Tom and her good friend Marci this past Memorial day. She had a goal of running the 6.1 miles non-stop, which she is proud to say that she DID!!!. She didn't beat her previous 10k time of 70 minutes, but she is a firm believer it was because she didn't stop to walk which gives you a recovery time to run faster when you start again. By the way her Bolder Boulder time was 1:15:05. Life is also really busy for her because now she has all 4 kids nonstop because of summer.


Emily finished the play this past month and she did WONDERFUL...but of course we are biased. She is still plugging away at piano and this past Saturday auditioned and made a chorale group (Young Artistry) for this summer. The group is kids from 3rd-8th grade and she is so excited to learn some new songs and choreography for her performances. School officially ended on the 28th and she is sad that it is over. We have felt very blessed with the teachers she has had. She is also excited for the pool to be open.


Mordecai is also plugging away at piano. Mom has slowly been teaching him and this past week he had an assessment piano lesson with Cheryl, Emily's piano teacher. She said that he is doing well and is slated to start in the Fall. He seems to really have a talent for it, just like his sister and Dad. School also ended for him on the 28th, and he is now a 1st grader. He wasn't nearly as sad as Emily was. In fact when Emily said she was so sad school was out Mordecai piped up with, "WHY?!?! I'm not! School is boring".  We plan on working hard this summer so he betters is handwriting before school starts. He is also enrolled in swim lessons at the neighborhood pool. He grew leaps and bounds last year with it, so this year we just want to make sure he can do the deep end with confidence.


Ruby is thrilled to have Emily and Mordecai home all day to pester, which she does a lot of. She is finally old enough to start swim lessons this year which is a good thing because she loves going to the swimming pool and playing in the big pool.  The last few weeks in nursery they take the older children in to participate with the primary kids for closing exercise.  Ruby feels like a big kid when she gets to join in with them.  Ruby is excited that she is big enough to get onto a swing by her self.  She also loves to hang on the monkey bar and loves to show off for people.


Ivy is finally using a few more words that we can understand but we are eagerly awaiting more so we can get over the crying for things.  She does well going to nursery.  I think having Ruby in there helps.  Ivy loves to play with the big kids no matter what they are doing.  She loves playing outside and pointing out dogs by barking.


Everyone is excited for Summer, and all the visitors we are expecting.


Phil and Hannah
May was a pretty busy month for some of us!


Phil got a promotion at work!! WOOHOO!! AND, we finally got a scout master called in our branch, so Phil doesn't have to fill that role on top of his Young Men’s duties. He is super excited about that! He also was a trooper and took the three oldest boys to the Father and Son camp out. It was rather cold that night, and I don't think Philip took enough blankets, so he froze all night. But the boys had a good time.


Orion had a field trip at school. That morning, he was in tears because he didn't want to go on the field trip. It took a little bit to get out of him that he was just nervous because he had never been to the Children’s Science Museum and he really wanted me to go with him the first time so that he wasn't scared. I was a super mean mom and made him go anyway. I talked to his teacher and told her to call me if she felt like Orion wouldn't be able to handle it. He went. He loved it. Hopefully next time he won't be so scared. I don't know why he had a sudden fear. He goes places without me all the time . . .


William has been really busy this month! He finished up his Let’s Play Music class, and had a recital on the 10th. I was a huge slacker and forgot the camera. William did . . . ok. He can't hold still to save his life and was super fidgety while the other kids were playing. He also didn't know all the words to the songs as well as he could have. (Again, it is because I am a super slacker and didn't work on them enough with him.) A few weeks later he had his Spring Sing concert at school. He was so much fun to watch there! (And again, I forgot the camera!!! Poor boy is going to think he isn't cute enough to have his picture taken!) He also got to dress up as a cowboy one day for school, which I did get a picture of, and was super excited that the eggs they have in their classroom started to hatch. He got to watch a baby chick come out of its egg.  He was really sad when they had to send all the chicks to a nearby farm.


Oliver has just been hanging out with me. He asks everyday if someone is going to come over. If I say no, then he asks where we are going. He doesn't really like the days when no one  and no where are the answers.


Winston is doing well. He has gotten super speedy at crawling, and is cruising a lot more. He loves to play peek a boo and patty cake. And really, he just loves playing with his brothers. Where ever they are, he wants to be. He has recently discovered playing outside and LOVES to be outside! Really loves it! He just had another weight check today. He is putting on an average of 18.8 grams a day!!! This is HUGE! We still need to keep him on the high calorie formula, and make sure he is getting 3 meals and 2 snacks a day sitting at the table. We will go back in two months and weigh him again. If he is doing really well, we will switch him to whole milk and start weening him off of his medicine. If he isn't doing really well, we will switch him to whole milk fortified with half and half, and keep him on the meds.


I have just been busy being a mom. Wanda and I decided to put our piano playing talents to good use. We are going to go to a nursing home and play. I have been spending lots of extra time at the piano practicing, which I am loving! It has been so nice to play something besides just the Childrens Hymns. Mothers Day was good. Philip wasn't feeling well, so I got up with the kids. Orion was so excited to give me the mothers day present he made for me in school. Philip made me some chocolate covered strawberries, and bought me a rose bush. And I bought myself a puzzle. It was a great day, and I am so glad that I get to be a mommy. How blessed I am to be entrusted with these little spirits who bring so much joy to my life.


Joey and Carlie
Reah still lives the life of a four year old.  She is not in school or pre-school, though we are trying to get her into transitional kindergarten this year, she wants to go to school so bad.  
Levi, May is his month.  He has been so excited for his birthday, 31 May.  On his birthday he got a donut breakfast and then a fun evening at Chuck-e-Cheese with a few friends. He had a blast.  He is looking forward to getting baptized, though kind of disappointed he has to wait until July.
Scarlett had her first band concert and boy was it terrible!  Scarlett is learning to play the flute and she did great, the terrible part is from the format the school district did it in, California is terrible.  
Glory had her tonsils taken out at the beginning of the month, so she was quiet for the first half of the month :)  Glory has been prepping for girls' camp coming up.  
Gideon has finally gotten his act together, a little and planned and gotten his Eagle project approved.  Joey told him he doesn't get a driver's permit until the project is done and no license until the Eagle is complete.  He also had his third and final orchestra performance for the year.  He will still have some private lessons over the summer and will audition for honors' orchestra in August.
Carlie has been very busy the last few weeks.  She has taken on the role of key spouse mentor in Joey's squadron.  It has included some training and attending several briefs and fun get togethers with some of the other spouses.  She worked one Saturday at a Military Appreciation Day activity at the mall and scored us 7 tickets to a San Francisco Giants baseball game.  The kids made it through the entire game.  We were pretty high up and they didn't know what was going on, but they still had fun.
Joey is always busy... between work and church it doesn't seem like he ever has any free time.  When he does get a few minutes he's running a Spartan race or taking some stupid motorcycle safety class, will it ever end.  He went to Colorado at the beginning of the month and ran a Spartan race with Desi and Felicia, he loved every minute of it and was so happy to spend time with his sister, in case you couldn't tell from the pictures.  He just wishes Ivy would warm up to him like Noah did (Noah didn't really warm up, but he was content to sit with the strange guy that wanted to hold him.)
As a family we've been busy too.  As mentioned earlier we went to the Giants game, but we also took time to visit with Nena and see her new little baby, Vanora.  We spent about 3 hours hiking in Pinnacles National Park on Memorial Day, Reah hiked the entire 2.7 miles like a trooper.  We were also able to visit a the San Juan Bautista mission settlement on our way back from hiking.  The family hiking is fun and serves as great prep for Carlie as she's prepping to hike Half Dome in October.  Gideon will be doing Half Dome in July with his Scout Troop.  Joey is hoping to summit Mt. Whitney in October with Gideon and Glory.  Mt. Whitney is the highest peak in the lower 48, 14,505 ft.


Robert and Wanda
Robert and I have been busy with more of the same.  Robert’s trying to get his feet under him in his new calling and I’m plugging away as mom.  I, like Hannah, am excited to play at the nursing home in Dodgeville.  It’s nice to have something to aim for.  


We enjoyed our branch campout this month.  Robert went home with Joshua and Hyrum and I stayed in the tent with Mary, Ben, Sam, Ruth, Moroni, and Adam (Joseph and Rebekah had work and Rachel stayed home to study).  I think I got the better sleep. hahaha.  Jamboree, our end of school year campout (in a lodge) in Waupaca is this weekend.  The kids that are going are sooo excited.  


Joseph graduated from seminary on Sunday.  He really didn’t want to go, but we kinda forced him.  Now it’s just finals this week and we’ll have a high school grad!!!  Of course, we’re the typical parents and are never satisfied.  Time to get him cracking on those mission papers!
Rebekah is almost done with her finals.  Since Mt Horeb graduated their seniors on Sunday, any classes that had seniors in them had their finals early.  Fortunately she’ll be able to take Friday off and babysit Joshua and Hyrum while I take the bulk of the kids up to Jamboree.  


Soccer is done for Rachel.  I think she had a good time this year.  It was definitely different than rec soccer and the team was barely starting to mesh by the time the season ended.  She also didn’t like her coach as much as her rec coach.  The nice part was the bus that took them to all of their away games.  The sad part was not being there to see the away games.  I think I got to see two of her games this season (the first and the last).


Mary has taken up running.  She wanted to know how far she’s been running each day so we google mapped it… 4.2 miles round trip, and she just started!  I told her to start timing herself so she can start dropping her time.  Unfortunately she mistook the intention and ran hard the whole time.  She was sore for a couple of days after.  Oops.


Samuel is excited for the end of school.  He was sad that his field day is on the same day of Jamboree.  He’s elected to stay home for field day and just go to Jamboree next year.  He’s had a lot of fun at school, especially with Wordmaster, Chess Club, Math 64, etc., but he wants to return to WIVA next year.


Ruth is also excited about the end of school.  Her class has piled up all kinds of field trips for the last couple of weeks of school.  She had two last week and two this week.  She will be skipping school on Friday and go to Jamboree with us.  She cannot wait!!! Her favorite part is the beach with all the inflatables.  The last day of school is June 10th.


Moroni is learning leaps and bounds.  It’s always fun to see the explosion of knowledge when it hits.  He’s still a great big brother to Joshua and is learning how to teach Hyrum.  The therapists have been working with the four younger boys and teaching Hyrum how to play with them and teaching them how to play with Hyrum.  It’s been interesting to watch Moroni use some of the phrases that the therapists use to teach Hyrum.


Adam took quite a beating at the campout this last weekend.  His back was eaten by the mosquitos and then he’s a bit red from swimming at the lake.  He looks like he has some kind of weird disease.  Adam is connecting a  little more with Hyrum too.  There used to be a clear attitude of ‘pesty brother’ that is now turning into an attitude of mentoring.  


Things will be changing for Hyrum, our new three year old.  Emily, one of his therapists has been promoted to a senior therapist.  This means that her hours will be dropping. Also Thom, another therapist, will be taking on another job.  They’re still trying to retain him for a couple of shifts a week, but we’ll see him half as much now.  ACT (the therapy company) is in the process of training two new line therapists.  We’re really happy with all of the babbling that Hyrum is doing now.  He even babbles a lot in letters.


Joshua is finally a full walker now that he can stand up in the middle of the floor.  He also got his first haircut, two molars on top, two more coming through on the bottom and finally the last of his front bottom teeth, all at once.  Everyone, except Hyrum ;), completely dotes on him.  


Dad and Mom
Hmmm....this month has gone by quickly...in fact the whole year has.  So, what's new on our front?  I guess the best thing is the knowledge that your Dad's heart is in good shape and that there's no real damage from the heart attacks 4 1/2 years ago.  I can certainly say that is a relief but the news of the pulmonary hypertension sure knocked the wind out of me for a little bit.  However, we're getting our bearings and doing everything we know to do, to exert as much control as we can.  The real test will be over the next two months while we're on the road.  We're trying to tightly control diet and exercise, as those are the factors that we can do the most to improve, and will result in improving his condition hopefully.  I suspect that our visits to each of you will be somewhat inconvenienced by this, but I suppose it is the price we pay :)


My time has been spent in the gardens, sewing, dr and PT appointments, and working to improve my organ skills and Primary.  It's nothing new, I know!


I'm still requesting copies of birth and marriage certificates PLEASE!!!  


Got news a couple of weeks ago that your ggrandfather, Emmett Bainbridge's remains are at a mental facility in Salem, Oregon.  They are seeking family to claim them.  Who knew?  I don't know any of the back story but I'm trying to find out what I can and perhaps have the remains sent to us.  I'll keep you posted on that! Lol


CJ is being married on the 6th of August in the Logan Temple.  Maria said that they will be having an Open House the week before.  Does that seem weird to just me?  Sarah has applied to graduate school in Logan and CJ has another year to complete his BS.  It is my understanding that he is still planning on medical school after that.  


We are excited to see you all on our trip.  We only have two firm dates - Abby's baptism on June 7th and Levi's baptism on July 5th.  I guess we're "fluid".  We wish we could make it to Joseph's graduation on the 12th?  It's hard to believe he's that old already!  Perhaps we'll be able to make it to the temple when he takes out his endowments.  


We love you all!  Hope things are going well for you all!  See you soon!!!

Wednesday, May 7, 2014

May 2014 Newsletter

Grandpa & Grandma

Perhaps the biggest thing on our agenda this past month and in the coming months is obviously your Dad's issues.  The heart catheterization results were both terrific and daunting.  The good news is that his heart is good, strong, and there is absolutely NO heart damage from the previous heart attacks!  That, in and of itself, is absolutely amazing.  The cardiologist was surprised about that finding as he had suspected that heart damage from the previous attacks were likely the cause of his discomfort.  Also heart related, is the fact that the stent placed 4 1/2 yrs ago looks great and the arteries that had been blocked anywhere from 75-40% were all significantly better???  The greatest blockage is now at 25% and the others are at 20% or less...all great news.  The valves are good too, as is effectiveness of pumping.  

The negative of the whole ordeal is the finding of high pulmonary arterial pressures.  Again, this finding at first, was pretty unsettling to me, however, I'm feeling much more optimistic now.  There are two types - primary and secondary.  Primary only has a life expectancy of about 3 yrs.  and that ISN'T the type your Dad has.  His is secondary, most likely caused by the pulmonary emboli of a few years back, his asthma, and sleep apnea.  His pulmonologist is running a complete battery of tests in the next few weeks to be certain that this is what is causing his discomfort, rather that just stopping here and making that assumption and missing something that could really be the culprit, i.e. gall bladder, liver, more emboli, sleep apnea not well controlled, etc.  Ideally all tests and their results should be completed for a May 20th appt. and then we can come up with a definitive plan.  Until then he is back on blood thinners, trying to lose as much weight as possible, back at rehab, using oxygen at night, and doing moderate activity as is tolerated.   

So - I guess this must be a warning to all of you with sleep apnea or to those of you who may have it...please get a sleep study if you snore, wake up at night to go to the bathroom, or your spouse says you breathe "funny" at night or even quit breathing.  This is an equal opportunity culprit...women can have it too!  And it is a major cause of organ failure, brain function, energy loss, and pulmonary hypertension.  Please get is checked out and use your cpap (Joey!) every night!  

If you're concerned or want to know more about pulmonary hypertension, there is a good website that can answer your questions, phassociation.org is a good resource and will help you understand more of what he's dealing with.  Depending on the current tests that he's going through, Dr. DiMeo has said that he'd probably refer him to Duke University for further evaluation.  

I would still like to remind each of you that I would like to have copies of your family's birth and marriage certificates for the genealogy files.  And, I thought I would start to work on some specific lines for family work.  I wonder if anyone would like to join me?  I know your time is limited but perhaps we could break down a portion of the research into small bites and see if we can get some done so we can take family names through the temple.

Also - this Sunday is Fast Sunday and I would urge each family to add Dan and Cherstin to your fast and prayers...that they will have success in selling their house.  And Winston...that he'll pull out of his downward spiral and start gaining some weight!  And of course for Hyrum the Elder (Husted)...for his continued growth and development.  I know our prayers, fasting, and faith (ever united) really works and The Lord will bless us individually and collectively.

Again, your Dad and I love each and every one of you with our whole hearts!  We're so pleased you're "ours"!!!!   Thanks for being there for us and for each other.  And give the kids the biggest hugs and kisses ever!!!

Robert & Wanda

It seems like everything is the same and a month doesn’t hardly bring enough change to warrant a mention, but I suspect it does more than I know.  Robert was just called as the first counselor in our branch presidency.  This means he’ll be released as the assistant stake clerk and will forgo the den leader calling they had initially extended to him.  This might mean I actually get to see him more than before… we’ll see.  I, Wanda, on the other hand just found out that I get to go back to school in August and am extremely excited.  Our stake has been given permission to run the Pathway program through BYU-I.  Over the course of the next year I’ll complete 15 credit hours through Pathway and then will automatically be matriculated into BYU-I and can continue from there to complete any of their online degrees.

Joseph is still plugging away through school.  Senioritis is getting worse.  This week, however, he’ll be done with his AP English course and just have the three left to finish.  During April Hannah asked him and Luke (a friend) to substitute for Adam and William’s class in primary.  I absolutely loved walking past and seeing the kids engaged with them.  How fun!

Rebekah is still working a lot.  She usually closes every night but Wednesday (mutual) and Sunday.  I think she’s wearing herself out, but she insists that it’s the only ‘fun’ she has right now.  She just took the AP Chem exam and AP Psych exam, so here’s to hoping she’s a little less stressed.  Finals will be coming up soon and she’ll have a short while to breathe before the ACTs.

Rachel has been playing soccer all month.  She is on the freshman team (wasn’t able to attend tryouts) with a lot of new-to-soccer players.  I’m really pleased with how she supports her teammates both on and off the field.  Lately she’s really into playing with Hyrum and Joshua.  I think she’s trying to be Joshua’s favorite person.

Mary is trying to finish up school.  She should be done with her big research paper soon.  While she’s not done as much babysitting lately (Hannah moved to Dodgeville), I’m really impressed by how well she’s babysitting for me at home.  It’s really sweet to come home to the kids taken care of, the dishes done and counters cleaned, and sometimes the kids even put to bed.  Next year she’ll be off to high school.  She decided that she wants to continue through WIVA.  This came as a surprise to me since her friends had been laying on heavy pressure to go to the local school next year.

Benjamin has also been playing soccer this month.  His Wednesdays are usually shot from babysitting in the morning (for a sister in the ward) and then off to soccer by 3:30, and then to YM by 7:00.  Fortunately institute is now through for a couple of weeks.  Hopefully this will allow him time to finish up school.  He’s been staying up late playing on his Google Nexus and tends to sleep in.  Joseph likes to come home from seminary and wake him up by shooting him with the Airsoft gun.  Waking Ben up reminds me of when we had to wake Phil up as kids.  We would resort to pulling him off the bed, or lying to him and telling him that Dad brought home donuts.  

Soccer is Sam’s sport of choice too.  We actually looked into other sports with Sam, but he decided he wanted to stay in soccer.  He likes the idea of raquetball, but there aren’t any courts for that even remotely close.  Sam is still enjoying chess club and cub scouts.  He’s halfway through his Webelos year, so we better get cracking on that.  May will bring lots of field trips which he is dying to go on.  This was one of the things he was hoping to experience at the local school, but they had them all scheduled for the last month of the school year.

Ruth has thoroughly loved school.  She has found that her best subject is math, but her reading has greatly improved.  Right now she’s into the Diary of a Wimpy Kid series.  Her favorite subject is art.  She even made a mobile to hang over Joshua’s crib.  Ruth has also had a lot of fun with soccer.   When you sign up, it’s for both fall and spring season, and she was miserable in the fall, so I didn’t think she’d enjoy the spring.  But she is having a lot of fun and her best friend from school is on her team too.

Moroni is completely finished with his art and math courses.  This is always an exciting time of year for me.  I’m just as excited for summer to arrive as the kids are.  We found a school chart (or rather I made one) that is helping us to stay on track.  Moroni and Adam, ever the buddies also have a lot of fun playing Lego Indiana Jones together.  I’ll set him to his phonics or language.  They’ll quickly finish and then be off on the Wii.  Little turkeys.  Soccer will also end for Moroni in May.

Adam has been enjoying beginning reading.  I’ve known he was ready for it for a while, but there’s been no time to teach it.  We purchased him a subscription on reading eggs and he’s having fun working through the ‘levels.’  He’s currently in the third ‘level’ which puts him somewhere in the twenties.  Adam has also recently discovered the trampoline.  It scares the bejeebers out of him.  He will now get on if there’s only Moroni and Hyrum now.  The big kids (and big jumping) still scares him a little.  Adam’s favorite pastime is watching Minecraft videos.  

Hyrum is still progressing with his therapists.  This probably takes up the bulk of my time.  In the last month he spontaneously said, “dough” (go) and “bay” (bed)!  This is a huge step to decide to speak/communicate completely unprompted.  Right now we’re trying to teach him how to play with Moroni and Adam, and also how to play and share with Joshua.  Another big part of his programming is teaching him ‘tact,’ which is basically labeling objects. With his birthday in May we will be transitioning him to Early Childhood (with the school district) and he’ll be attending preschool in the fall.

Joshua is learning how to walk.  He’s been cruising since he was nine months, but is finally taking steps on his own.  He’s still not stable either, totally doing the mummy walk (hands forward).  First words are also here.  He has mamama, ball, bubu (bubble), dadada, and bu (bug).  He likes to share… especially with Hyrum who doesn’t necessarily return the item.

Joey & Carlie

Joey and Gideon ran a Spartan Super in Las Vegas the first weekend in April, 9.27 miles through the desert. It was a good trip. Glory tagged along with them to Vegas. They ate authentic pizza At Settebello, went to the top of the Stratosphere and checked out the Strip and ate Cici's, they don't have one in Monterey. On their drive back, they drove through Death Valley. During their trip they listened to the book "Flags of Our Fathers" about the marines in World War II that are in the iconic picture of the flag raising on top of Mt. Surabachi on Iwo Jima.  Joey is listening to another book, "A Higher Call" about a German fighter pilot in World War II, give it a listen if you get a chance. Joey is on his way to Colorado to run another Spartan Race at Ft Carson with Desi and looks forward to seeing her and her family as well as Felicia, Tom and meeting Noah. Joey has been busy at work planning a visit for General Rand, the Air Education and Training Command Commander to the Presidio, 4 star generals are high maintenance, he can't wait to be one.

Carlie has decided to take on the role of key spouse mentor for Joey's squadron, a new and different experience for her but very helpful for some of the younger spouses and especially for students’ spouses.  As of late there have been some unseasonably gorgeous days, it got up to the low 80s on April 30th.  Carlie pulled the kids out of school an hour early and hauled them all off to the beach.  The water is chilly but it is still fun.  They all got a little sunburned, very atypical since Carlie is always very serious about the application of sunblock.

Gideon is a lazy 15 year old, though he is very busy.  He doesn't have a lot of free time. Joey keeps him busy with the Spartan Races... There is also seminary, school, scouts, orchestra, oboe lessons, lacrosse practice and he's finally gotten some of the lead out and started working on his Eagle project, should be all done by 21 June. In May Gideon will have his third and final concert of the year. He will also be auditioning for the honors orchestra.

Glory has still been homeschooling/unschooling.  At this point she really sets her agenda of what she wants to learn and goes about learning something about it. She been learning about plants and herbs and has started to pick up some books to learn Italian, she already taught herself morse code.

Scarlett spent her second week of Spring Break at a sports camp where she was able to participate in many different sports. She has loved participating in activity days and is looking a forward to starting Karate in May.

Levi is still the active 7 year old that can't wait to turn eight at the end of May. He's working hard in Karate and should be getting his Yellow belt soon.

Reah runs wild daily with crazy hair from friend to friend. She is the happiest of little girls and knows no real hardship, though we still hear how we don't love her when she has to brush her teeth or go to bed. She loves to sing songs from frozen and we can often hear her singing and asking us if we want to build a snowman from the other side of the door.  

Phil & Hannah

Things are going well in the Bainbridge household. We had an interesting (read that as stressful) spring break. There is a family in our ward who has been staying in a hotel in between rentals. They called monday morning to ask if they could come hang out, and stayed until Friday morning. The boys loved having extra kids here to play with, but I have to admit, I wasn't sorry to see them find a new house!

Orion is still doing well in school. We just got his report card for this last quarter. He is too social and it is interfering with the other kids’ education. But Orion personally is doing great in school. He tested out of the reading mastery program, which is what they do for the first graders here. And at his last reading test, he was reading 117 wpm! For someone who doesn't like to read, and it is a fight to get him to sit down and read a book, I am pleased with his progress!

William  is still loving school. He has finally made a friend in his class. But he can't ever remember the little boy’s name. William is almost finished with his "Lets Play Music" class, and then he will have a recital. I have enjoyed doing that class with him, but will also be glad when it is over. The drive into Madison every week for it is getting a little old!

Oliver gave up on potty training. He really has no desire to make any kind of effort to go potty on the toilet. Sometimes, after sitting on the toilet and doing nothing, he will ask to have a diaper. 30 seconds after he has it on, he comes and tells me he is wet and needs to be changed. GROWL!!

Winston is doing well! We love this new medicine he is on! He is so happy all the time now! And even better, he is finally putting on weight. After we met with GI, we had to meet with a nutritionist. We had to start doing a high calorie formula, and keeping a food diary. The goal for the formula is to get him to take up to 20 oz a day. We are almost there! At first he was only taking about 10-12 oz. Now his daily average is 16. The other thing GI wanted us to do was meet with a failure to thrive specialist. We just met with her last week, and good news! Winston is gaining about 9 grams a day. His target weight gain should be between 8 & 14 grams a day. As long as he is consistently within that range, we won't have to put him on an appetite stimulant.

I am doing really well. One of my little sisters just got engaged and is getting married in September. I am excited to have an excuse to go visit my family this summer. On the other hand, a different little sister ran away about a week ago. Police reports have been filed, but we have not heard anything yet.

Easter was wonderful. We had a lot of fun doing the "Seven Days Till Easter" thing out of the Friend. And we loved spending the day with Wanda and Robert. We are so blessed to have them close by! Wish everyone else was closer too!

Mike & Desi
Mike- just got done with a huge project at work. It was and is under security clearance so I know nothing about it. I do know that he had to wear a suit the day of the presentation, so it must have been an important customer.

Desi- I spend most of my time in the car! I told mike that our next car needs to be a motor home. I'm looking forward to having Joey come this Thursday. I'm going to be running/trying to do the spartan race with him. I also was recently called to be the stake relief society events coordinator.  Which means I'm in charge of planning, decorating and preparing food for ALL stake relief society sanctioned events. The number of events will fall between 6-8 a year. We usually have something after each general broadcast, so that's twice a year, then our stake holds an annual women's conference luncheon, then missionary zone conferences and last but not least I'm in charge of dinners for the stake presidency and any general authorities that come to stake conferences. That's the only exciting part :-)

Emily- she's most of the reason mom is in the car! She has play practice 3-4 times a week! We will be so glad when the play is over... Only 2 more weeks. Then piano one day and soccer practice twice a week with games every Saturday. She is way advanced in class and loves school as you could imagine. This past week she had a little friend in school stay with us while her parents were in DC.

Mordecai- he's the other reason I'm in the car. He gets picked up from school half day. He enjoys school but doesn't love it like Emily. I think it's because he's not as confident in himself. I don't know why because he's advanced in reading and math. We've been working on his writing, and now it's actually legible. He also has soccer practice once a week (of course it's a different day then Emily's) and games on Saturday. This past Saturday he scored his first goal ever!!! He has also recently started taking piano from mom, mostly to have the basics down before we send him to Cheryl reeder.

Ruby- what can I say... She is full of life and energy. She reminds me a lot of myself and Felicia combined. Sneaky, but shy, and very lovable, not to mention all her hair! When you ask her where she got it all from she answers with "Costco". She loves to go to stores and asks daily if we are going to any, and how many?

Ivy- she just turned 18 months and joined nursery! YAY! We also found out that's she has an extra tooth, just like ruby...except ruby had 2 and so far we only see 1 extra. Here's hoping. She's as cute as ever, but we are biased, and she's our baby. We are finally starting to understand her when she talks and she copies everything everyone does.

Dan & Cherstin

We've had a few showings or so.  Other agents all say that the house shows well and is very clean and friendly feeling.  No offers as of yet, but the people that last came and looked said they our house was on their short list of houses to put offers on.  I guess we'll see.  We would appreciate any continued prayers that our house will sell.

We had our medical processing board this past Tuesday.  Because of a few "issues" (asthma and Hyrum's ears), we will have to wait up to two weeks to hear back from Elmendorf to make sure they have the resources necessary for us to PCS up there.  We would have rather had this whole process started sooner, but there is only one Lt.Col. that does it for the entire base and he was out of town for over two weeks.  We have a tentative appointment for TMO on the 15th of May to get the ball rolling on our pack-out.

If all goes as planned, we will leave for Denver towards the beginning of June, baptize Abby there (I believe this is news to Mom and Dad...or not by now) and then head up north from there.  We are planning to camp along the way to save money and allow the kids some outdoor/run around time.  We are actually looking forward to the trip up and have purchased a few new camping supplies (instant tent, and some cold weather sleeping bags).  

Dan's busy training his new replacement in his office.  He might also have to fly next week which I am really, REALLY dreading.

As for my kids....

Abby is doing fine.  She's doing a lot of reading while we're on break.  She's read a few Harry Potters, The Cricket in Times Square, all of the Ivy and Bean series (which takes her like an hour a book), and is currently working on Diary of a Wimpy Kid.  She and Ellie both have a little gymnastics show scheduled towards the end of the month and Abby is very excited to be learning a routine for it.  She's been walking around singing the kings and queens of  England which just makes me laugh.

Emmett just swam in his last swim meet here.  He will continue to practice with his team on Tuesday and Thursday evenings because I NEED him to be out and active.  He's gone through spells of destructiveness of late and he's quite lucky he survived.  He was rather helpful today, though.  He just lost another tooth which is what makes him look even more like he got struck in the face.

Ellie is going through that four-year-old whiny stage.  She turns five in a few months so it's looking like she is riding four out until the end.  The other day I had to threaten to take away her dresses if she didn't start wearing shorts underneath them (because she does all kinds of crazy things even IN the dresses).  She rolled her eyes at me and told me she'd just go naked.  She's enjoying her reading lessons and is counting up until she has her birthday.

Hyrum is typical two.  If we weren't moving, I'd probably start thinking about potty training him.  He was doing great until we went to Denver a few months ago.  Now he's back to holding and flooding his diaper.  At least once a day we have to change his pants because he potties a stream too strong for anything to hold it back.  He likes this show Paw Patrol on Amazon and is constantly pretending that he is a dog.  I have flashes of Abby meowing at the age of two when he does it.  His "dog" is a lot more tolerable than Abby's "cat" so I'll take it.

Enzo is still not walking.  Little turd.  He stepped all the way across my living room (which is not huge but still!) and yet he will not make walking his main mode of transportation.  He can even stand up from sitting in the middle of the floor, though he doesn't do it often.  He's just getting over another chest infection so we're all happy that he's back to happily playing on the floor for even a few minutes.

So...that's us.  I'm looking forward to hearing/reading what's going on with everyone else!

Tom & Felicia

We're doing great! We really enjoyed General Conference, particularly President Uchtdorf's talk on Gratitude.

Noah is getting bigger every day and we wish it would stop. Recently he has begun following more one word commands/prompts. Like if we tell him "gabonk" he'll lean his head forward so that we can gently head butt him, or if we put his bear up to his face and say "give kisses" he'll kiss his bear though, he still won't kiss Tom or me.

Tom and I are staying busy with work/housework and callings. Tom serves as the 1st Counselor in the Young Men's Presidency in our ward and recently, I was released as Webelos Den Leader and called to serve as the 2nd Counselor in the Relief Society Presidency. However, they still haven't called a replacement Den Leader so I am doing both callings until they can get someone called.

Most recently we took a short trip over to Martin's Cove because Tom had never been. It was a wonderful experience and we definitely felt the spirit there. We are looking forward to new adventures in the coming months and to getting to see Joey and Desi at the end of the week!

Can't wait to hear from everyone else!



Tuesday, April 1, 2014

April 2014 Newsletter

Mom & Dad
1) thanks for doing this...wonder how to make it easier for you tho -


2) my "surgery" for my knee is scheduled for next Thursday.  Should be a cakewalk in comparison to the other ones:)  It will require being put under anesthesia but is an outpatient procedure and involves a couple of weeks of therapy afterwards.


3) your dad is back in pulmonary rehab after our jaunt to Colorado.  He's doing well tho -


4) Joey has submitted his application to the "sons of the American revolution".  Once it is approved we ought to consider putting aps for sar and dar for all...think about it.


5) on a genealogy note - I've updated all family records for each of you but I'm VERY desirous to have each date sourced for your families.  So - the easiest way to do that would be for you to scan, fax, or email me a copy of birth certificates and marriage certificates for your families.  Please!!!  I would love to have that all completed and I could send you each the access or a gedcom file or whatever you would like for your records if you want.


6) happy birthday, Wanda!  And - also for April - Lorenzo, Cherstin, Joshua...and happy anniversary Joey and Carlie:)



Robert & Wanda
Robert is busy with work, as I’m sure most of you dads are.  He’s also filling in for the Stake Clerk while he’s on an extended work trip and just accepted an additional calling to serve as the cub scout leader in our branch.  It’d be nice to get sleep at some point.  Wanda is busy trying to keep up with Robert, the kids, schoolwork, therapy, soccer, and primary.  Soccer starts for most of the kids in April, so she might get a lot of books read in the car through April and May.


Joseph has a serious case of senioritis.  He’s really looking forward to being through with school for a while.  However, if he doesn’t get those mission papers in soon, Mom’s going to make him get his school applications done.


Rebekah is really enjoying life, but we don’t know when she finds time to sleep (other than all day Saturday).  She gets up for seminary at 4:30am to beat Rachel for the coveted first-in-the-bathroom slot. After school she tutors in English and then heads off to work.  She closes almost every night so she’s not home until after 10:30.


Girls’ Soccer started at the High School for Rachel.  It took a while to jump through all of the hoops for eligibility, but she’s finally a go.  She’s frustrated that they have more drills than scrimmages.


Mary has feverishly worked to get caught up in school.  She wants to go to the local high school next year and her parents have insisted that she show she can stay on top of her work.  She’s really enjoyed the Divergent series introduced to her by Selma.


Benjamin is a wonderful hermit.  Thankfully soccer will start soon for him and get him out of the house.  Currently he donates his time babysitting for a sister in the ward so she can attend institute each week.


Samuel has loved trying out the local elementary school, but insists that he wants to return to WIVA next year.  We’re baffled because he’s loved all of the extracurricular activities.  He’s been participating in chess club (tournament in April), Word Masters (vocabulary), and Math 64.  


Second grade has been a fun adventure for Ruth.  Her reading has improved greatly and she’s found that she excels in math.  Her favorite subject has been science and her teacher is great at introducing fun science experiments.


Moroni has been learning how to read.  He’s getting better each week.  He’s really good at math.  When Mom asks how he figures a problem out, he says, “my brain just talked to me.”


Adam enjoys sitting with Moroni at his school lessons.  Sometimes Mom has to ask him to be quiet to give Moroni a chance to answer the questions.  


Hyrum is up to about 23 hours of therapy a week.  This really takes up a lot of Mom’s time, but she really enjoys seeing all of the growth he has made.  Hyrum knows the sounds for all 26 letters.  The therapists are even teaching him beginning reading (phonics and sight words).  He’s always surprising us.


Joshua is cruising walls and furniture.  He only crawls now if he has to and even stands for short bursts.  With his first birthday coming up this month, we’re excited to see those first steps.

(Sorry this is so long - I tried to make all the kids’ updates into one paragraph, but it was just overwhelming to look at, so I followed Joey’s example.)


Joey & Carlie
Joey - Enjoying his job as Director of Operations (Vice Commander) in his squadron, he especially enjoys the opportunities he is given to mentor young Airmen doing the same thing he was doing 16 years ago. In church he's real busy  ring a ward missionary, leading services on the Presidio and as the Secretary for the Stake Young Men. He's very excited that he finally got his California Concealed Carry Permit.


Carlie - is busy running kids everywhere, as I know you all are.  Se has been doing a ton of reading this month and recently finished Glenn Beck's Being George Washington as well as The Real Benjamin Franklin.  She has especially enjoyed reading them with Glory and sharing the things they've learned.


Gideon - just had his second concert for the Monterey Youth Orchestra, it was good.  If you want a sample of how he's doing check out joey's FB post where he had the oboe solo throughout.   He's learning to play lacrosse and dad is bugging him about getting his Eagle done.


Glory - has been homeschooling this year. She continues to play the piano.  She loves to babysit and does it for extra cash and as service.  She's still the voracious reader, 1000+ pages a day! as of late we've enjoyed going to see some of her favorite books as movies.


Glory - has been homeschooling this year. She continues to play the piano.  She loves to babysit and does it for extra cash and as service.  She's still the voracious reader, 1000+ pages a day! as of late we've enjoyed going to see some of her favorite books as movies.


Scarlett - just returned from a week at Science Camp. Her first real stay away from home in the Santa Cruz mountains.  She enjoys fifth grade and can always be found with her friends.


Levi - is in first grade and doing great at reading. He always wants to take his turn when we do family scriptures. He has a lot of friends and spends most of his free time outside whenever he can. He is a Tiger Cub and working on his yellow belt in karate.


Reah - our baby, she is attached to mom. Whenever Carlie goes anywhere Reah wants to tag along.  She really loves to play outside too. She is excited any moment she gets to go to the beach.


Joey and Gideon are running a Super Spartan in Las Vegas on the fifth of April and a Spartan Beast on the seventh of June in Monterey. Joey is looking forward to seeing Desi and Felicia in May when he heads to Colorado for a Spartan Race there.


Philip & Hannah
We are settling in here at our new house! We love having so much space and room to stretch out!


Orion is doing well in school. He totally rocked his last spelling test!


William LOVES going to school. His handwriting is improving greatly. I would almost venture to say that Williams writing is as legible as Orions . . .


We are working on potty training Oliver. It isn't going great. It isn't going horribly either. Just not great.


WINSTON IS CRAWLING!! And, he finally pulled himself to a standing position yesterday. He has supposed to be napping though, so I wasn't as thrilled as I should have been. He had his 9 month check up last week. He weighs 20 pounds 12 ounces and is 28 3/4 inches tall. He still isn't gaining weight, so we have an appointment to see a pediatric GI on April 2nd. We also switched his medication. Again. But the good thing is, his lungs sounded really good after his bout with pneumonia.


Philip is doing well at work. I think he is going to apply for a promotion soon. He still isn't thrilled with his calling in church, but I think he is less stressed about it lately.


And I am just busy trying to keep up with everything going on around the house, and with kids. We are all looking forward to spring (It comes in just 70 hours!) and warmer weather. If anyone wants to come to Wisconsin for spring break, we have room at our house. :)


Mike & Desi
We had Emily's baptism this month. Very spiritual and neat experience. Mom & dad, Cherstin and Dan and their kids, Felicia and Tom, and Mike’s parents were able to come out.


We finished putting in the base throughout the house and just finished the master bathroom remodel. We are still waiting on our light fixture. I'll try to take photos in the morning to send along with the email.


Mike’s work is going strong, keeps him busy. Emily is a fairy in the school play, "Peter Pan jr". Emily and mordecai started soccer this month. I still have been running and even shaved time off since I got my inhaler. I'm now under a 10min/mile. Ruby and ivy Are crazy busy which means a lot of cleaning.


Dan & Cherstin
Our house is officially on the market.  We are hoping and praying it sells soon.  It has been quite interesting and busy getting it ready and listed. I am profoundly aware of my non-craftiness and inability to decorate.  Some days I've wished I could twitch my nose a la Bewitched and have Desi come stage my house.  Regardless, it's up on the market.  Any prayers that the family can spare that it will sell would be greatly appreciated.


Otherwise, life is going fine.  My kids are finishing up their last month of school in anticipation of the big move this summer.  Abby currently loves the song What Does the Fox Say and has an imaginary friend "Foxy" that she talks to at night.  Sometimes she gets annoyed because Emmett tries to play along.  Tonight she had an entire conversation with Foxy while sitting on the couch.  Emmett is still swimming with his team until the very last month.  He's also chosen to sign up for a triathlon in May.  Ellie just started reading lessons and is rather excited with her new skills of sounding out three-letter words. Hyrum is a general two-year-old punk.  He has to see the ENT in a few days because one of his ear drums has a probable hole that did not heal when the tube fell out.  The surgery to fix that is to cut around his entire ear to patch the drum.  We're hoping for a conservative wait-and-see approach, but it'll depend on what's really going on.  Lorenzo is learning to walk, but very cautiously so.  He's been standing for MONTHS, but won't brave more than a few steps.  He's currently got pneumonia and is on a ton of medications and is super duper clingy.


Tom & Felicia
We don't have much to report. Tom is loving his work as an addictions counselor. The stay at home mom gig has been a little tough for me to get the hang of though. :/ Noah is doing great. He is loving getting to try all different sorts of solid foods! We can't wait to hear how everyone is doing!